We provide information regarding abortion and other pregnancy decisions. In order to know the type of abortion you could seek, or if an abortion is medically necessary, you should have an ultrasound exam to confirm viability and determine the gestational age of your pregnancy. GMPC Medical provides ultrasound services at no charge to you. We do not perform abortions or place children for adoption. We do provide valuable and important pre-termination information if you are considering abortion. We inform, you decide.
Questions about abortion:
GMPC Medical connects patients to local resources and services in order to ensure that they receive support throughout and after their pregnancy. We do not have partnerships with any adoption agencies – so we are objective in our adoption information and guidance.
Questions about adoption:
- How can adoption be good for me and my baby?
If you are not ready to be a parent, choosing adoption is another alternative that is a win/win for you and your child. You can plan for your baby’s future by selecting a stable, loving family to care for him or her. After birth you can see your baby, name your baby and spend time with your baby, or not. If you so choose, you may be able to get updates on your child’s progress or have ongoing visits throughout your child’s life while you continue your education or career goals.
- Can I choose a family for my baby?
Yes, most agencies have many different families from which you can choose. These families have been screened and approved. There are additional options such as choosing a friend or someone who has been recommended to you. Your agency will discuss these options with you.
- How much contact can I have with my baby after birth and after adoption?
You may have as much contact with your baby at the hospital as you desire. When planning your child’s adoption, you can choose an open adoption plan that allows ongoing visits with your child, or you can choose less open adoption that keeps you informed about your child’s progress through letters and photos. Adoptive families respect your need to know that your child is loved and happy. If you prefer not to have any contact with your child or the adoptive family, confidential adoption plans are also possible.
- How soon after birth can my baby go to the parents I choose?
The timing of your child’s placement depends on three factors:
- Your preference for the time of placement: Many birthmothers want their baby placed with the adoptive family directly from the hospital. Some women prefer to place their baby in temporary care while they consider their adoption decision. Your agency can help with either option.
- Legal aspects of adoption, which may vary from state to state
- The cooperation of the birthfather
- How much will my child know about me?
That depends on what type of adoption you choose – open, semi- open, or confidential. Also, your agency will encourage you to provide your complete medical and social history to your child, no matter what type of adoption plan you make, and in some states that information is required. You may choose to share your identity and where you live with the adoptive family. If you’ve made an open adoption plan, you may have ongoing, direct contact with your child and the adoptive family. The information your child will know about the birthfather depends on his relationship with you and your counselor. Most birthfathers give their complete medical and social history, recognizing how important it is for the child. In some cases, the only information available about the birthfather is what the birthmother provides.
- Does the birthfather have any rights?
Both you and the birthfather have rights. If you disagree about adoption or you no longer have a relationship with him, your agency will work with the birthfather and/or the courts to determine if his rights can be terminated.
- Can my child find me if he/she wants to search someday?
The laws in your state determine when and how your child may have access to information in the adoption file. Your caseworker will explain the current laws as they apply to your adoption plan.
- How can I be sure my child will be well cared for?
Adoptive families approved by your agency must meet standards that are shared with you. Your agency will make every attempt to complete a thorough assessment of potential adoptive families. Prior to finalizing the adoption, a caseworker will make home visits to ensure the child’s well-being. In an open adoption, you will see for yourself how well your child is cared for and how much your child is loved.
- Do I need an attorney or do I pay my agency to assist me with the adoption?
In most states, you do not need an attorney and there are no costs to you. The adoption agency will handle all of the legal details for you and birthfather.
- Does the agency offer assistance with medical and living expenses while I am making an adoption plan?
Assistance with medical and living expenses is available through many agencies. Your caseworker will tell you how your agency can help you in your particular circumstances.
Health Insurance, medical care, baby items, financial aid, and housing may be available to you should you decide to parent. During your first appointment, GMPC Medical will provide you with a list of resources based on your needs.
GMPC Medical does not provide birth control, as it is not 100% effective against unwanted pregnancy or sexually transmitted disease. Factoring individual circumstances, we will refer patients to consult with their family physician to discuss contraceptives.